So it's this guy I worked with. Now I was very attracted to him until he told me he was married. So I naturally backed up. I ended up quitting a few months later & that's when he reached out. So he told me he caught his wife cheating at left her the car and house. Then we hung out a few times. HE CLAIMED he just wanted friendship. BUT everytime we hung out he was always touchy feely. Not anything disrespectful though. Just cuddling. Even at the hot tubs if I had no clothes he let me get in first then came back to the room and left when I got out. But every single time i get drunk I undress and he slept on the floor we were together. So the first time I crossed the line I asked if I could touch him he said no... the next time I took his hand and put it down my pants and he gave me a hickey and licked his fingers. After dropping me off he called telling me he felt he took advantage of me and prayed for me. He always tells me he loves and cares about me but doesn't want a relationship and can't go without talking to me. Plus he kisses me in my sleep, always tells me im beautiful and he doesn't want to hurt me. Always stares at me and spends lot of money but very stingy in general. He also tells me to find a man who treats me like he does. Plus I never opened my own door. Even if I was driving .So what is it?