We have been married for 4 years now and together for a few years before we got married as well. We have a 7 month old baby.

We’ve had our issues before mainly trust issues. He broke my trust early on in our marriage by going online and chatting with woman. I wanted to make things work so we went to a marriage counselor a few times while I was pregnant and I know my husband thought it was crap.

Since we’ve been caught up with my pregnancy and raising baby things had been going great until recently when I looked at his phone and saw he was messaging some woman. Turns out this woman and her husband are wine collectors which my husband enjoys.

It shouldn’t be a big deal but it was still bothering me. So last night while we were in bed I had my son asleep, I was telling him how it had made me feel I wasn’t accusing him of anything JUST telling him it just made me feel uneasy him even talking to another woman on Snapchat it just seemed inappropriate.

THEN my husband gets out of bed turns on all the lights and is furious I brought it up in bed. He was like “why do you always bring stuff up in bed and make me feel guilty” at this point our son wakes up and is crying. I’m still laying in bed and he’s standing over me angry I even brought up how I felt... so basically he’s fuming because I brought up him talking to another woman and how it bothered me. He goes “you do things that bother me that I never bring up but you always put me down”. I’ve given this man no reason to think I’ve been unfaithful to him. He went to sleep in our guest room and I haven’t talk to him yet since he’s at work.

But his first reaction for me opening up to him is to get angry..