Is this normal for the male neighbor to do?

Is it normal for the neighbor who is at least older than 45 to say to a kid who is about 6, that when she turns 16 he will give her his car. And for Christmas him and his wife buy the kid a small diamond ring. They aren’t rich but seems normal or inappropriate? Also was paid a penny to shine the guys shoes while on her knees in front of him and told its a woman’s job. And told how the male neighbor eats little girls who don’t have tonsils

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