AITA? Pregnant and hubby told me to fuck off

Hallie

I’m 25 weeks pregnant, and my husband told me to fuck off today... our son starts school in September, one of my husbands best friends is getting married in Spain on the 5th... our son is due to start school on the 7th... I asked my husband what he was planning on doing about getting back... I wanted him to get a morning/mid day flight so we could go out for dinner/ celebrate our son starting school the next day ( this is obviously a huge day for me) he said no... that he would get an evening flight... he said well he will be there to take him to school the next day so what’s the big deal.... I was really angry because I will alone that weekend with my son and a three month old baby. I wanted us to have a special weekend before he starts school.... then I thought I’d settle for a special evening... but no! So he told me to fuck off and said I always have to ruin everything... I might add that his best friend (in the same friendship group) is getting married in Italy in October of that year, I’m not going to that wedding either because we will have a young baby... I told him if it was me I would no go to the wedding at all... he told me I was being a bitch and that was bullshit and that I would still go.... I absolutely would not! I feel like I’m being really lenient by saying he can go to both anyway! Seeing as we’re going to have a young baby. It’s also both our 30th birthdays that year (June and October) so we’re now going to have no money to celebrate our special birthdays.... what do you guys think? Am I being unreasonable... I am pregnant so it’s possible I guess but I feel like I’m not