So let me tell you, I don't have the closest relationship with my mom. Everytime we talk it's an argument or a disagreement so I just don't waste my time. I only talk to her about light things like how the weather is etc. (She lives in a different city)

Well me and my husband are over the moon because were having our first baby and it's a boy. My mom lives in a two bedroon apt with my brother and two cats (that are hardly housetrained) it smells like urine up in there but she says she can't smell it. I refuse to go over there unless its urgent. I get sick.

Well she keeps going on and on about when the baby is gonna stay with her (granted the baby isn't even born yet) and I've just kind of let it go like "well see"

Well now that I'm further along, she wants to keep baby for her birthday in Oct. (Baby will be born hoepfully the first week of June) and I absolutely do not want my baby to be anywhere near there. She also gets cold sores all the time and keeps talking about how many kisses she plans on giving my son.

I know I may be dramatic. But I'm am livid but don't want to cause another argument. How do I nicely tell her, that a. I don't want my son in a urine cat infested 850 square foot apt and b. You're not kissing my baby.

She can come over if she wants but man I do not even know if I'm gonna want my baby from me that early anyways!! MY BABY ISNT EVEN HERE YET!!