So my bf and I have now been together for 10 months. He was thoughtful with gift giving before. He randomly got my a necklace and then for my bday I got a box of blankets, snacks, socks. Both were soo cute but not even expensive.

Then Christmas i got nothing and then a few days later I got a throw pillow and that was it.

Now I joked about him getting me a giant teddy bear for valentines. And I just found out that he doesn’t wanna do gifts.

I already got him a gift. I put a lot of thought into these gifts. Like I worked really hard and made a blanket for Christmas. It just makes me feel more defeated that he doesn’t put effort in. I’m not expecting anything fancy. I’m not trying to sound like a gold digger as he could make me a card and I’d be fine. Just put some effort in