Any chance you would forgive this?

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Found out my husband was sexting women online. He said he never met anyone in person. Which crazy enough I believe that part. But honestly I’m just fuming right now. He was being super emotional and apologetic and crying and saying he wants to make things work. We have baby together.
I’m too mad right now to make any decision. Do I forgive and try to make things work for our son if he’s sorry or is a cheater always a cheater? Do people actually change

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I believe that once you betray a persons trust, it is extremely difficult to get back to a place of trust. Trust is the foundation of any good relationship and without it, anything you try to build on that foundation will crumble. A relationship without trust is not a healthy relationship. I personally would not stay with a person I cannot trust. If a person is not worthy of my trust, they are not worthy of me.￼￼

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I truly believe people can change. But you have to decide the best way forward for you.

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I don’t think a cheater is always a cheater but I couldn’t let that go. I would never want to be one of those insecure women wondering what their partner is really doing or who they’re talking to. I wouldn’t want to compromise my happiness, my sanity, or my confidence because my partner chose to cheat.

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There’s a very short list of unforgivable offenses that I have. This is not a part of that list until its become a second offense. I’m a believer in second chances and have witnessed change for the better, but I can’t say that it works out that way for everyone.

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I personally couldn’t stay with someone who did this, they’ve lost my trust and i couldn’t be with someone if my trust is gone. Don’t ever stay in a relationship just for yourself childs sake though, if you’re hurt and don’t think you could ever forgive him or move on from it then leave but if you can forgive him and can move on and don’t think it’ll cause arguments in the future then stay. Only you can decide on what to do

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Some people who cheat actually change but personally I wouldn’t be able to stay and find out.

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Was it like on a dating site? Was the messages just about sex? If its just about sex and nothing else i would take it as some version of porn in away...like hes not emotionally connected to this women like when men watch a porn vid its just to get him off. Id still be pretty mad tho

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He’s sorry because he got caught, BUT maybe people change?

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The only way to forgive him is if you are 100000% really ready to forgive him. And discussions need to happen about why he was engaging in these conversations in the first place.  What does he feel he’s not getting from your relationship? And where did these women come from? call the women and ask them what their relation is to your husband

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Typically 
Cheaters only feel bad they got caught 
If you didn’t catch him he would have kept on doing it, so you know he isn’t really that sorry

Any chance you would forgive this?

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