So I posted before about how my ex was always trying to coerce me into sex and would touch me and pressure me for about the last year of our relationship and it really fucked me up.

I recently started going to therapy and my therapist brought up working on this with me.

I recently started talking to someone again and I really like him, its been a long time since it felt comfortable to have feelings for someone so I am excited. But every once in awhile when I think about me and this person the excitment goes away and is replaced with the feeling sick and gross from my past relationship. I get excited to touch him and to be touched. Then it's like I revert to how I felt in the past and I feel sick and scared.

How do I cope?