I have a fwb that fucks good but there just isn’t enough foreplay in the beginning. He just pushes me onto the bed kissing me, sticks his fingers in a bit and rushes to get his dick in. It’s nice after a while but he wonders why it’s so uncomfortable for me at the beginning. I try to tell him to slow down a bit but he doesn’t listen. And he gets annoyed if I need a break. How do I tell him I need a bit more to get me going?