Ok so basically, recently I’ve gotten into a big falling out with someone I would’ve called one of my best friends. We’re gonna call her Kayla. Anyways to give some back story Kayla is someone whom holds a grudge, and will be angry for a longggg time. Anyways, a few times before this she’s gotten really mad at me for things I’ve said, and I find out that she’s mad by her acting weird towards me, and talking behind my back, usually to one person whom I’m friends with as well (let’s call her Leah). And each time this has happened, I’ve always contacted her asking what’s wrong and apologised profusely, saying that I never meant anything I said to upset. Ok so to give you an idea of things she’ll get mad about, she has a boyfriend (lets call him Jayden). So once I remember she was telling me about how he eats chips and drinks coke every day and is still skinny. So she loves to talk about her boyfriend all the time and I said absent mindly as a joke (and stupidly might I say) ‘he’s probably fat on the inside.’ Now she didn’t say anything to me at the time, but she got extremely angry at me over it, and I found out later on that she told Jayden and basically full on shit talked me to him about it for ages (whilst he was never even mad about it in the first place). She also talked to Leah as well, which is how I found out about this. Anyways I ended up confronting her in person and asking what I did wrong, she told me and I told her that I was sorry, also that I didn’t mean to hurt her. Now this is one of many times something like this has happened. Now not long ago she was acting really shitty with me and I could just tell she was mad at me. So One of my friends (Tanya) said she could try and find out for me. At this point I was honestly sick of her being mad at me for what I perceive to be nothing, so I said yes. Anyways while asking, the most Tanya got out of Kayla was that it was ‘lots of little things’ and for a trip I was planning with another friend after yr 12 that she thought was excluding her. To give you an idea, there are like 15 people in our group, and it was in no way to exclude her. It was only that this friend and I had always wanted to travel together. Basically what ended up happening is that Kayla started trying to talk shit about me to Tanya, so (something I’m really grateful for) Tanya stood up for me, which caused them to have a huge falling out as well. So after this Leah contacted me and said she wanted to make things all good with me and Kayla. I have no idea if this was the right decision but I said pretty much, that I wanted to end this petty feud, because it was immature and stupid. But I also said that our friendship was not going to be the same, because I was sick of feeling like everything I ever said was being taken as an insult, and stressing about it. Most of my friends are on mine and Tanya’s side which is nice, but I feel bad for Leah since she’s stuck is the middle.

Anyways if everyone could give honest opinions that would be great :)