We've been together for 7 years and I recently had our daughter (it was an easy labor and delivery...no major concerns). Well I was still on pelvic rest and couldn't have sex. He gets a raging hard on and asked if I would give him oral to help. I told him I didn't think it was very fair cause I'm not getting anything but to finish him and roll over and maybe get some sleep between a crying newborn's feedings.

Am I wrong for saying no??? He's really upset by it.