I need help, tricks, advice or something. I’m having a hard time realizing and facing this truth that I’m not exactly satisfied with sex with my significant other(SO). We’ve been dating for 4mo and I’m very happy with him (aside a few things) and I love touching him, kissing him, being with him etc. but something is wrong in the bedroom.

He can go for a very long time, has great stamina, and will keep going until I c*m so, he’s definitely trying. That being said, idk what’s going on. He’s average size but his girth is extremely small since he’s really lengthy and tall. I’m short and thick. I feel like he can’t reach my g-spot consistently and idk how to get him to. Also, because if our size difference I’m extremely self conscious.

Because his girth is so small I have a really hard time riding him, doggy is fine but we mostly stick to missionary so needless to say things are vanilla. We do have an anal plug and lube but that kind I’m not really fond of. I don’t know how to make it more exciting for me. It’s obvious he’s happy because he wants me all the time and I want him too but my orgasms are prolonged because of all this. With my ex in under 30, by myself in under 10 but with my new boyfriend about an hour.