Telling kids

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Laura

For anyone who has kids already. When did you tell them that you are pregnant. I have a 7 year old. Had a miscarriage 2 years ago. Where I told him right away. Had a miscarriage a few days later. I'm now 9w3d and dying to tell him but so scared. I've had 4 ultrasound. Baby seems healthy and growing. When did you guys tell your kids?

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Am

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I’m almost 9 weeks and I’m still so unsure if I should tell my son. We told him with one previously and we lost it and it traumatized him. He’s 6 almost 7. Our daughter is 2 and doesn’t really get it yet. Best of luck!

Ly

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I had to tell my daughter (4) because I have been so sick and she is usually pretty rough with me. Jumping and using as me as a jungle gym. I couldn’t take it anymore so I had to tell her in hopes she’d get off me 😂🤦‍♀️

Al

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I’m waiting until I am twelve weeks which will fall on my daughter’s bday. I would say do it whenever you feel comfortable. 😊

In

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I would wait until you’re comfortable. I was going to wait to tell my 7 and 6 year olds but daddy told them while on the phone with his mom about the news. Even though he knew I wanted to wait until 12/13wks.

pr

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I told mine at 9 weeks they’re 12 and 9

Am

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I'm waiting to tell my kids until after the first trimester. They are 4 & 3 and just feel like they wouldn't understand if I had to tell them I had a miscarriage or something so trying to wait until the risk goes down

La

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You are basically in the clear now! I would say tell them when you are comfortable to tell them!! I just told my siblings this morning I’m 9 weeks 5 days

La

La • Feb 15, 2020
Lol my bad!

La

Laura • Feb 15, 2020
Sorry worded it wrong. I meant babys siblings. Like my son. Lol.