Helicopter parents

I’m 22 years old. I still live(ed) with my parents I have a 10:30pm curfew I’m not allowed to have friends only boyfriends. I’m only allowed to go out twice a week and not consecutively. I’ve tried meeting them in the middle for years but they won’t meet me in the middle. Even when I’m out during the daytime they still call me and ask me to go home as soon as possible. I found an apartment signed the lease and everything but they won’t let me go. They even showed up to my job after having stayed the night at a friends house. I don’t know what to do they are making this so hard. I don’t get why they can’t just support me in my decision