so tonight my husband got home from work and we laid down to watch a movie.. all of the sudden his phone goes off with a notification and he asks me to check it, so I did.. it was just a bank notification. Then I scrolled to the main page to look at a video of our last appointment with baby boys heart beat when all of a sudden I see 2 suspicious apps under his ‘utilities’ folder.. I clicked on it and it happened to be 2 chat apps (red flag🚩) why are they under utilities?!! At this point he’s looking kind of nervous and I still didn’t think much of it. I asked him what the apps were and he tells me they’re apps to share memes with people..🤔 so I said okay, then I clicked on the first app and the first conversation that catches my eye is one that reads “hey, what’s up?” (profile picture was a girl) he had sent this message and gotten no reply.. so then I started scrolling up to look at older conversations and I see what inevitably broke me ... he’s SEXTING her!!!!! he’s asking to see pictures of her boobs, asking her if she’s a virgin, telling her he has boners... WTF!!!! I broke down.... he then begins to cry and apologize and the first thing he says is “if you think I’m cheating on you, I’m not ... I promise” ...... UMMMM idk about you guys but sexting is cheating to me 🤷🏻‍♀️ he says he’s going to do all he can to get back my trust and blah blah blah ....... he’s apparently never met this girl, only through the app. Am I crazy?? Overreacting?? I just feel so betrayed... like I’m not enough. We’re expecting our first baby.. got married back in April of 2019. Why is he doing this now??!! I’ve been feeling like he’s been sort of distant since we found out about baby. He never brings up conversations about being excited for the baby, never asks me how I’m feeling. If I don’t start a conversation about the baby, he NEVER does.. we would literally never talk about our son if I wasn’t the one to bring him up.... and then this. As if I needed more stress added to my life right now 😣 I am so hurt. I feel broken, betrayed, not good enough... I just don’t even know if I still want to be with him at this point 😔