5 year old daughter is trying to have sex with brother?

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Guys this is not a troll post I'm dead serious and need to know if now is the time to immediately get my daughter in therapy. I have a 5 year old daughter and a 17 year old son. He went on a camping trip with his girlfriend and his sister begged to come along. I said sure because they were going with his Aunt. My son called me at like 1 am and told me that Tapía watched him and his girlfriend have sex. I asked him what the hell does he mean by "watched" and he told me that she had peaked into their tent and saw her on top of him & his eyes were closed. When he opened them he noticed her there and started freaking out. Then after they were dressed he asked her how long she had been there and she shrugged at him. They are back home now but this morning my son went and got his sister dressed for school for me while I was cooking. Then he went and laid back down because he had a cold and I just heard him yelling Tapía NO dont do that! And moments later he was carrying her to the living room. Before he retreated I whispered why were you yelling at her and he pulled me aside and told me she climbed on top of him and started moving her hips like she saw his girlfriend doing. So I freaked out at that obviously and when he went back to sleep I sat down with my daughter and explained what she did isnt okay but it was going through one ear and out the other. Guys I'm worried.

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Ummm no! She doesn’t understand what sex is! It’s not like she was actually trying to insert his penis into her vagina. If you take her to a therapists you will probably traumatize her. This is what I would do. Talk to my freaking kids. Son can not have sex inside of home or whenever sister is around. EVER!!! Talk to your daughter you need to explain something. Start with a mommy and me date and then be like so your brother told me _____________ and then be like he also told me that you tried to do what you saw to him. Tell her that that is only for adults and that your sorry that she saw that. And if she has questions or wants to talk about it she can to you but she can’t talk about it to other people bc it’s only for adults and they would think that not appropriate. This whole post is ridiculous idk why someone would think their daughter was trying to have send with their son. She literally doesn’t even know what it is. 🤦🏼‍♀️🙄 it’s time to grow up and be a parent before real damage is actually done.

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I'm sorry but you are obtuse. She is 5 years old. 5 year olds repeat EVERYTHING they see. You need to tell your son that he needs to find other places to have sex that don't include somewhere his 5 YEAR OLD SISTER IS NEAR. He's not at fault because she came into their tent but I wouldn't even be close to horny knowing there's a child around.

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You guys are all so judgmental and it’s crazy.. she’s scared and concerned 
And when I was younger this is how I was introduced to sex bc I SAW my parents
I experimented dry humping kissing girls my age 
I didn’t physically have sex until 18 
However I experienced the urge and masturbation young.. 
We know that it feels good even if we didn’t fully know about “sex”

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One I would be having a conversation with your son. He should not have been having sex around your daughter. Yes it was an accident that she saw, but he shouldn’t have been in that situation. You need to reiterate to your daughter that it’s not ok, that is only for adults. If she doesn’t want to listen then definitely ask a professional on how to handle the situation

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This is your fault why would you send your 5 year old with your son and his girlfriend in the first place and second he clearly isn’t responsible enough to be watching u his sister if he could wait to have sex like where did he think she was . And lastly you are ridiculous for this post your five year old isn’t trying to have sex she is only copying what she though was going on you tell her that’s not ok and she can’t be doing things like that .

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In my opinion, I don’t think it was a good idea to let her go with them. Secondly, she’s in fact repeating what she saw and I’m not sure she does understand what she actually saw. But to be careful, I would try to call a therapist and explain the situation to see if it would be better to have her be seen.

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How did she peek into their tent, was a five year old in her own tent in a campground? 
Either way, she obviously doesn’t know what they were doing and it’s something for adults. You should probably get a book for children about it. And tell your sun it’s inappropriate for him to bang his girlfriend when he’s supposed to be watching his little sister.

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There's nothing wrong with therapy, but young kids really enjoy mimicking things they have seen.
I'm sure your son feels awkward AF right now, and I'm sure your daughter doesn't understand why.
I would have your son sit her down and say I'm sorry you saw that, and then you should explain consent and boundaries to her. 
If she doesn't get it, there's nothing wrong with therapy. We are trained to handle these things and can make the child feel safe to express how they feel about what they saw, so you know she will be in good hands.

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I would suggest therapy and a good talk with your daughter. I’m so so sorry y’all are going through this!!

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Wow people are harsh... as others pointed out she doesn’t know what she saw, she is just imitating.

5 year old daughter is trying to have sex with brother?

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