So we not together and he hasn't seen baby since end of December.

He's been paying direct debit in to the babys acc but stopped it begging of this month.

He's welcome to see baby anytime, we agreed to meet in public (used to come to my house), but goes off on one calling me a lier.

He said he's happy to pay if he's baby but he's not even trying. (he don't drive) but that's no excuse if he really wanted to see his baby he'd show up 2 times he didn't show and didn't msg saying he couldn't make it.

Even though he hasn't seen her since last year he seem to msg me EVERY weekend, arguing, stressing me out (not sure if he still does|sell drugs)

So havnt replied to him for 2 weeks going on hols this weekend so think I'll msg when I'm back but not sure what mayb jsut send dates and times I can do if he can't then I've tried, he works away too sometimes so I can't help that either, I make plans with friends too as they work in week

Any advice or anyone been through this