Lots of pain during sex, PLEASE HELP

J

So I need some advice or something. Lately, having sex with my man hurts like a mf. It’s like I wanna do him, but my body isn’t turned on enough or whatever? I have a really hard time getting wet now for some reason and as soon as he, yknow, goes to do the deed, everything contracts and gets way too tight and we can’t. Any of you ladies ever gone through this, and if so what’d y’all do to fix the problem?