In laws are a pain in the arse

So basically just wanted a place to vent.

We went to my inlaws a week ago for dinner. When we arrived we just decided to make whatever we could find. We had only sat for 10 mins and i was just holding my little babe in my arms minding my own damn business.

My father in law then turns to me and tells me to get up find something and make it for dinner. Ohh and he says this near my husband who didnt even stop his dad in his track to tell him how fuckn rude he is.

Im not the type of person to say anything back especially because my husband is all about his parents and i dont want to cause a scene so i bit my tounge.

Went home and then brought it up with my husband and he said yeah it was really rude and when i asked why he didnt say anything he basicaly says what was i meant to say.

Like wtf honestly. This is not the first time his dad has been like this towards me and i thought he would of got his shit together already but nope still the same ignorant fuck.

What would you do in this situation? Would you still bring it up and mention to your father in law that he cannot speak to me like that or let it slide and if he does it again then stop him in his tracks and set him straight.

Honestly maybe not all in laws are like this but mine never liked me at the start then warmed up to me except my father in law... he expect me bloody slave for them because he has that backwards mentality.

I want to say something so bad but im worried that it will cause an issue between my husband and I. My father in law has a daughter of his own and never speaks to her like that and im sure as hell he wouldnt allow for her father in law to treat her like that.

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