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Fizzy

So the last time I had sex was a year ago by my ex who raped me. I’ve been to nervous to do it again. Getting fingered kind of hurts and I can only orgasm from clit (which I know is normal) but I want to feel pleasure from sex. I’ve tried a dildo but when it goes up there’s pain in my lower back and tummy.... why is this? Its not even big! I now feel mentally ready to have sex with a guy I trust but how do I stop it from aching inside me? I just want to feel pleasure 😩😂

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So when you go through trama like that it takes a while to feel mentally comfortable to have sex. I know what your going through I would always have pain and bleed with my ex because my previous raped me and was just plain horrible sexually, it took me about two or so years to actually enjoy sex and it not be painful.

Fi

Fizzy • Feb 24, 2020
Aw I’m sorry you went though the same :( would you say the pain you experienced was mental? Because I’m not sure why it hurts.... and for you 2years later or so, is it completely enjoyable now?
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