Ladies who have had to decide between vbac, induction or csection.

What helped you decide?

Im 39+4. I had a sweep at 39 weeks. Had another today...I havent progressed despite contractions on off and losing my plug etc. The concern is baby isnt dropping, at a -3 and my pelvis feels small. I'm scared of another emergency csection and of baby being in distress.

Do I schedule an induction so I can try a vbac while baby is monitored? I'm scared of another long hard labor and a csection... recovery from both. All I ever wanted when we started having kids was an all natural birth. My first presented nose first, but never was in distress, and I'm not sure she ever dropped before she got stuck.

Help ladies. I need feedback.