We are doing AI at home and had a donor who we’ve tried unsuccessfully with.

We’ve majorly gone off our donor and started looking for another donor.

We’ve found one who’s nice and normal, he’s half Malaysian. We are both white with blue eyes and so we are (potentially over thinking) worries that the child will feel ‘different’ as they won’t see themselves in us. And also, people will think it’s adopted.

What are your thoughts???

It’s such a headfuck!! 😭