Being unconfident isn’t sexy.

I remember crying in the bathroom of the gym.

Uncontrollably balling my eyes out.

My insecurities, my anxiety, were too much. The love I couldn’t give to myself was nonexistent.

For days that turned into months I hated looking in the mirror. My outfits, I thought were “cute” made me feel like an elephant in the room.

My own smile made me uncomfortable.

The more insecure I felt, the heavier my depression and self-hate weighed on me.

Finding perfections in everyone but myself.

I compared myself to strangers,

I put them on a pedestal.

We want that smile, that hair, that body.. What we have, what we are “stuck” with is overwhelmingly unfair..

Forget “getting that perfect body”

Work on getting peace with your body

Learn to love yourself throughout your journey, it’s hard enough as it is.. Challenge yourself positively..

Breathe out the hate,it doesn’t belong on your shoulders.

Self love isn’t being selfish..

it’s taking pride in what you have,

It’s owning the flaws and owning yourself.

Owning your thoughts, how you act, everything.

Self love is being your own biggest fan,

When you appreciate yourself to that level.

Comparing yourself won’t be a habit anymore,

Instead you’ll start to appreciate other people’s differences, their perfections, their flaws. Not because you’re putting yourself above them but you’ll be whole with yourself. One with your soul.

Love conquers hate..

This journey is hard enough. It's challenging in Everyway..

Don’t make it harder for yourself.

Don’t create your own limitations.