Just have to rant

My bf and I decided to try anal. We bought numbing cream and I put it on before we started anything. We’re in bed making out and feeling each other, then he went down on me. A little while later he realized his mouth is numb! So we start having sex, kissing each other and I realize my mouth is feeling funny, I thought my mouth was just dry I kept asking for more water, soon we realized my mouth was numb from kissing him😂 lesson learned don’t put numbing cream on too early