I was working all day and when I get home, I notice that my husband cut the baby’s hair (first “hair cut”). Her bangs were in her face and it had been bothering him for a while. I asked him a few days ago not to cut it. He did it anyway.

Backstory: my baby had 3 procedures in utero and 3 post natal surgeries (at 8 days, 12 days, and 3 months). I’m extremely attached to her and want to be there for her 1st everything.

Another backstory: My husband and his mom fed the baby a banana (her first food) without me while I was napping. My husband took the baby into the ocean for the first time, while I went to get her bathing suit to change her.

I’m extremely hurt and angry. Nobody gets it.