I really am at the point now where I think I hate my husband , he’s lazy , he’s arrogant and he’s just a negative person to be around . We have a 1 year old daughter I get up with her at 7am every morning , he works 4 days a week tuseday-Friday I work a Thursday evening and a Saturday he won’t even get up with her on the Saturday and let me have a lay in .

We have been together 5 years and his personality has changed so much he is so arrogant now and thinks he is always right and judges others 24/7 , I hate the way he drives when me and our daughter is in the car , I say this to him all the time but he ignores me and tells me to stop complaining when I don’t even no how to drive . He is such a negative person and always looks for the bad where I am the opposite and will always hope for the best.

I work 12 hours a week at a supermarket and am so busy the whole shift , he tells me I don’t have a proper job and can’t complain , ( he works 48 hours a week ) I physically can not work anymore hours that I do as there is no one that could have our daughter and the cost of childcare wouldn’t be worth me working more .

He brings up past relationships of mine all the time which where over 5 years ago so when I was 18 and under , I was with 2 people born with the first name “jamie” he often says things like if I was called jamie would you be more attracted to me and stuff like that .

He complains that I don’t give him enough affection and that I don’t want to have sex with him I tell him the way he acts towards me makes me not in the mood to show him affection and that he needs to change , he says that I need to show him affection before he can change.

He has told me multiple times that he doesn’t respect me , I have never cheated on him , spoke to another male etc for him to not respect me or trust me.

I’m not sure what I am getting to in this post I just have no one at all to talk to about any of this , from the outside looking in we are a “””perfect””” looking family , the expensive car , nice holidays , nice clothes etc , but when we are alone it is a different story. Honestly I’m not sure what I want to do , as much as it is shitty it is easier being together than apart , I don’t drive so I do relay on him a lot for that , I’m definitely not staying with him for his money before anyone jumps to that conclusion as I would be stable without his income , I sometimes even think , I’ll just put up with him until Im 40 and my daughter is older and then I will put my happiness first , I duno I just feel a little lost right now and could do with some advice (not criticism please ) has anyone ever been in the situation?