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Just communicate with him. There's books out on how to discuss things like this with your partner. There's groups for like minded people. Keep in mind that it might "scare" him off. Not everyone is comfortable with the lifestyle. You may have to make a choice. Also... There is a thing called top drop. Tops need after care too. Just make sure that when you have the conversation with him that you are in a calm comfortable setting. Don't push. Just let him know that these are things that you are in to. DON'T PUSH. Let him know that you want him to be comfortable with whatever you are doing. If he isn't having fun then it's not going to last. And as always, make sure it is safe, sane and consensual.
How To Explain My Kinks To My BF
soo, im with this guy for 6 months now, and we have a really great sex life. recently, i have told him that i liked being choked, spanks, getting hit(like slaps on face) etc.. aand he reacted pretty well actually. he is really becoming better at it now, but he says he feels bad afterwards. but i can see him really enjoying what he is doing when we are having sex.
and, i also like bondage, and 'being forced'. but im kinda unsure of how he'd react if i tell him that too? i told him that he doesn't have to do it if he feels rreeally bad but he said it was okay, and he has done these in his past relationships. he said he had never done this with his 'serious' partners. i mean, i am not ashamed of what i love. but i also dont want to push him, or scare him off?
idk. what should i do? any tips?
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