Hey girls,

So it’s been about 3 weeks since my ex and I broke up.

We have stayed friends and still will Snapchat everyday.

We have hung out a couple times since the breakup because we made it clear that we wanted to stay on civil terms and be friends.

My ex doesn’t allow people to know what’s going on in his head, so it’s hard to get stuff out of him.

We hung out a couple days ago and it’s probs the best time we have had together in a while, we laughed and had fun but we also discussed other people. He told me if he was to get with anyone else it wouldn’t mean anything and it would jsut be for sex, although he talks to that girl a lot and I said but people usually will get feelings if there talking and having sex.

Anyways he said he doesn’t care what I do with anyone, although he keeps acting weird over this guy who I have currently become friends with, he makes sarcastic jokes about it and will say stupid stuff to stir me up.

Past all that, we ended up having unplanned breakup sex and on that night he told me he missies me and he wouldn’t let me go, hugging me and kissing me a lot. Although after we had sex he went and hung out at a girls house with his mates and her, including the fact that he slept in her bed. I asked if anything happened and he said no. (Although I asked if he misses me in the morning and he texted back “it hasn’t hit me just yet”) so did he say that so I would have sex with him?

His mood will change every Time I walk in the room, he try’s to act like his life is awesome and he will make smart ass jokes to try and stir me up, (as if I’m talking to my friend who is a guy, he will yell out “cute”) even though we discussed that both of us won’t do that.

Okay so sorry to bore you but the breakup was a kinda mutual decision but led more to his side, why is he doing all this if he says he doesn’t care what I do and that he thinks his life is awesome now he’s single?

What are your girls thoughts?

What is going through his mind?