I have to vent for minute.

I became a SAHM in June due to my Husband getting a promotion at work.

It was his idea for me to stay home die to the fact that sometimes his schedule would change and sometimes he would be on call. I agreed and gave up the job I loved for the person I loved most. My son.

I love spending time with him. Dont get me wrong. But I am seriously tired of being told by my Husband that "he doesnt know what I do all day"

I am literally raising our child.

I clean, do laundry, vacuum, run errands, take our son to appointments ect ect.

Ive been working out since September. My Husband wants me to add in cardio. Im already lifting weights and working on my diet and toning.

Its like he doesnt want me to sit down. He wants me to be able to manage my day better so Im told.

I run errands in the morning. My son and I get home. Hes a toddler, so I am chasing him around all day. Then during nap time I do laundry and eat lunch. When my son gets up I do all of the cleaning so I can be as loud as I want to be. But apparently it never seems good enough. "Well why cant you fit in cardio while he naps?"...

So my question to him was "Do you get breaks at work?"

Maybe I want to sit for a minute. Maybe I want to watch an episode of a show Ive been trying to finish.

These statements are coming from the same man that I feel rarely helps me out with our child. He watches movies and sleeps on Saturday mornings until around noon. Hardly plays with our son. My son is crazy about him and sometimes I dont know why. My Husband only wants him around when its convenient. I can count the number of diapers this man has changed in the passed six months on one hand.

Everytime our son poops I have to do it. My Husband goes out to have drinks with a friend and thats fine. But when I go out with my friends he acts like its a chore to "watch" his own child. And asks all kinds of questions and so on.

I have tried talking to him serveral times about this and he always turns it around and makes me feel guilty.

I love my Husband, but I dont know what to do anymore. I feel like its gotten worse since I started staying home.

This man wants one or two more kids. Im thinking to myself..."yeah because you wont have to takr care of them all of the time like I would have to."

Am I in the wrong here? Am I just being bitchy?

I need some advice. Even if its just a "man" thing this kind of behavior should not be accepted.