Okay—- totally strange question here:

My spouse and I decided to start trying to conceive a few months ago. I have a daughter who will be 11 tomorrow, and he currently has no children. (3/4!) this poor, wonderful man like a mini, has been misinformed about the way making a baby works. When I told him that we only had a small window we could actually conceive his mind was blown. He couldn’t believe you couldn’t get pregnant all

Month long, even commented/questioned: “ so you’re telling me all the girl Has to do is monitor her ovulation as a form of birth control and doesn’t need to be in the pill?!?” I totally vote for a major reform in the way we teach sex education to argument, but that’s a different story.

anyways—We have a pretty healthy sex life, but I’ve recently observed that the only time that he doesn’t wanna have sex is when we need to lol. So last month, I told him hey babe this is our time let’s do it and he got performance anxiety. This month I decided not to tell him, but last night when it was my prime day for us to conceive he turned me down. I told him you told me you don’t want to know when we need to do this so I’m trying not to tell you but what do you want me to do so you know?!? He had nothing to say lol.

I’m sure I’m not the only one who faces this struggle, so anybody have any advice on how to stress the need to do the need without actually saying it??   she hates planning sex, so if I tried the whole let’s just do it every other day or three times a week that would stress them out. He just turned 39 and I turn 35 this year, so I know we’re at a point where each month Counts, so i’m trying to make the most of each month.

Any thoughts?!?