Im 29 weeks pregnant and iv had some massive change in circumstances.

So husband is in the military and is going away right near the due date, we live about an 1 hour and 45mins away from our family. I had a plan set in place to have the baby where we live but unfortunately that has all fallen through so if i do give birth while my husband isnt here im going to have literally no one here for me or my 3 yo son, so my husband feels more comfortable if i change hospitals to our home town and travel down a week before baby is due as ill have his family and my family about whenever this little rascel decides hes ready to come out if my husband isnt around.

I have no idea where to start and how to do it all or even what to do to get my hospital changed.

Not only that im also stressimg about aftercare as ill be staying down there for a few weeks just to get some help with my 3yo while im recoveing and then ill be coming back home.

Its all getting on top of me and stressing me out as im a planner and i need to get soemthing in place so i know what im doing.

Has anyone got any advice or has been in a similar situation?