When did you say I love you?

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Hi I just want to know when some of y’all said I love you for the first time? Did you say it first or did the other person? Was it in a super romantic setting or a normal setting or what??
I guess I’m curious because I’ve been with my boyfriend for 4 months and I think I’m ready to say I love him but I wanna know what it was like for other people too haha

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Me and my now fiancé were best friends for 2 years prior to dating. My fiancé said it a month in. Definitely wasn’t in a romantic setting but it was cute. We always wish at 11:11 (whether it works or not lol) so I was like oh it’s 11:11 make a wish and while I was wishing I heard “I love you” 😅 it was cute.

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i told my boyfriend a month into our relation that i love him but i had just gotten my wisdom teeth removed and didn’t realize i said it till i went back and read our messages to see if i said anything. never said it again and he never said it back totally embarrassed but again i was high cuz of the anesthesia lol anywho a few days ago he whispered i love you into my ear for the first time ever as he was hugging me and i grabbed his face said it back and kissed him

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I said it first while I was half awake in the middle of the night two weeks after we started dating.
The next day I was curious if he heard it or not so I kinda said something like “hey, did I say anything weird in my sleep?” 😅
Of which then he had this goofy smile on and in my heart I hoped he heard me tell him.
Took him awhile after that- well I had to tell him I was sort of awake when I said it before he like got the message 😂 but he did find it cute apparently.

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Errr I believe I said it first but that didn’t happen till around a couple months after we had our first son.

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Oh man, my boyfriend said it the first night and I totally froze! I kinda pretended I didn't hear it because I didn't know what to do. I asked him about it later on and he got all flushed and explained that he's had his eye on me since high school appearently but he was super shy. For years he'd always go to parties if he knew I was there and according to him he had the biggest crush on me (awe) but he was in a bad place at the time and we lost touch because he told himself I deserved better. About a year ago we crossed paths again and he said he quit everything cold turkey because he wanted to be the person I deserved and finally went for it! And now he's snoring up a storm next to me as I type this haha💕. Some things are just meant I guess. 
I told him a few months later in a random Uber. So it wasn't very romantic 😂

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He said it two weeks into the relationship  We were laying on the couch together, watching television, so it really wasn’t a “romantic” setting. I said it at about two months, while we were both lying in bed together.

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About 3 weeks in haha. Things were different with him since the start. I had felt it so insanely strongly that I had to stop myself from saying it on so many occasions. I felt like it was too soon and didn't want to scare him off. One night I even let it slip while we were sleeping but thankfully he was already asleep so didn't hear. 
We had just gotten back from visiting his parents and sister for his sister's birthday. We were at my place and I knew I couldn't hold it in much longer so I just told him "you don't have to say it back, but I think I love you". He said it back but i was worried he was just saying it because i did. He initiated saying it first the next day though and it put me at ease. 
We've been together almost 5 years now, married almost 3. He's since told me that he felt the same way as me and loved me before we said it, but was worried he would scare me off if he said it haha.

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