Everyone acts like 37 is too old!😡

Im 37 and we have unexplained infertility, everytime anyone asks about us having kids I try to avoid the conversation. Just say waiting for the right time or whatever, usually I get the response back dont wait your getting old. Why are people so rude! We are saving for IVF at the moment and most my family knows that, last week I told one of my family members we should have the all the money in 6 months or so, ill be 38 then. Her response but you will be so old. 😡

Im so over insensitive and uneducated responses to my already depressing situation!