how long does it take for a broken heart to heal? because i’m tired.

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it’s been a few weeks now, i’m still talking to him and we are good friends but i can’t let the feelings go

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You will never heal if you stay in contact.

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You have to cut off all contact. After being in a romantic relationship, I’m sorry but friendship is not an easy task and messes with your mind. 
Then go out with friends, mingle. Once you meet someone else and get attention elsewhere it will get easier

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It depends on you, there is no specific time frame unfortunately. 
What I can tell you definitively is that it will take a heck of a lot longer and likley conpoundnyour heartbreak by staying in contact with him now.
I would ease into the background, give yourself a chance to heal. If you want to revisit a friendship at a later date, then by all means do so...but talking to him now is a huge error.

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I wouldn’t talk to him.... at least not until I know I’ve healed

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There’s your problem. You can be mutual, but being friends isn’t the way to go, right now. Distance yourself.

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The more you talk to him the longer it will take. Sometimes you can’t remain friends with an ex.