So, my husband and I had a tubal reversal last year and my doctor told me that if I hadn’t conceived in 6 months, that he would start me on Clomid. Well, 6 months later, we still weren’t pregnant so my OB’s nurse called in a 3 month supply. Luckily, I only had to take one round and it worked! We are now 7 weeks pregnant as Due October 22nd. My mother-in-law has 4 sons. 2 are in jail for drug related charges. My husband works 900 miles away from home and makes real good money. She recently hit him up for her car insurance and when she found out I wasn’t having it, she conned him into paying it behind my back. She even lied to me and told me her boyfriend paid it for her when I asked if she ever came up with it. My husband finally broke down and came clean with me after he called and asked me to send him money when he should have had more than enough to last him until the following payday. So if course I start accusing him of partying and going out to places he shouldn’t be going so he had to. When I found out, I quit talking to her all together and I now have access to all his accounts so that I’m reassured it doesn’t happen again. After she talked him into that, she was needing $20-$40 every 2 or 3 days. So my husband told her that she would have to find another way to make money that we weren’t doing it anymore because she lets the rest of her kids lay up and drink and do drugs and bring girls in and out at all hours of the night and things like that. I’ve heard her say how “she needs to find a man to take care of her” and how “she took care of her kids all those years and now it’s their turn to take care of her”. She uses everybody she comes into contact with. Now she’s hitting him up for $200 to finish up her car insurance next month and since we are saving for my husband to come home for good when the baby is born, we can’t help. I wouldn’t allow it anyways because she shit in her nest real good with me from the last time. She and her oldest son get disability and her brother and his wife live there so they help. She’s been doing some very illegal things for one of her sons in jail like taking tobacco to the jail and hiding it so that they can have it snuck in and selling prescription drugs for him and another inmate to put money on their telephone accounts. Anyways, the other son is 21 and he is in county jail for about another week. He, his girlfriend, and the other brother who’s in jail too, got caught with meth in his girlfriends car and “nobody knows who’s it is” and said that “his friend myst have dropped it when he got in the back seat”.... 🙄 yeah... ok... it was found under his seat and they’ve all being doing this shit for years. He then decides it’s a good idea to show up to court drunk and he got a mandatory 30 day sentence so he hasn’t even been to court yet on the meth charge. He’s the baby and he talks to her like she’s shit but she caters to him like you would not believe. He lives there and isn’t made to pay anything but when me and my husband had to stay with her a few months because we moved, we hAd to pay half of everything. She also charges her brother and his wife to stay there. He doesn’t have to though. Anyway, she ran her mouth to his girlfriend that my dr put me on clomid so now they’re both on my ass wanting me to give his girlfriend the rest of my medicine so she can get pregnant. And I’m just like “Crack??? Is it crack you’re smoking???” #1- In my opinion, they have no business with a baby. #2- I’m not giving anyone prescription medicine #3- why can’t I just have my moment???? Why would she want to help those two have a baby with the situation being what it is??? I finally had to get ugly with her this morning and tell her that I wasn’t doing it to help that girl trap my brother-in-law because I’m sure he has no clue that they’re even trying to get me to do this. That and he’s constantly cheating on her. She even had the nerve to take the girl he was cheating with to the jailhouse with her on visitation day to visit with him!!! Ain’t no damn way!!!! Anyways, I told her they had no business with a baby and that he was gonna have more than just her pregnant if he didn’t watch out because he cheats on her soon as she leaves for work. And he wasn’t going to atop doing drugs long enough to get a job and support it. And that I didn’t understand how come now that I’m pregnant, she’s trying to get everyone else that way too. She told me I shouldn’t look at it that way that my brother-in-law said he wanted me to get the meds for her and that I shouldn’t be so selfish. She’s in for a ride awakening when this baby gets here. She thinks it’ll be staying with her and it won’t. She drinks and takes prescription pain meds at the same time and also takes sleeping meds on top of it at night. Then she has all that trash in and out of her house all hours of the night. My husband even said it wouldn’t be happening. She even had the nerve to throw a fit because my mom went to first drs appointment with me and she had to pick her other two grandchildren up for me and cause a huge fight between me and my husband. So now, I can’t even take my mom with me. I feel like she’s trying to sabotage my happiness because she’s not getting her way. Am I wrong for feeling this way??? Am I wrong for saying no??? Am I wrong for wanting to punch her in the f***ing nose?!?!?! Because it’s coming if she doesn’t calm down.... I’m sick of her and overbearing persistence. Do you guys think I’m being childish? I’ve always had to share the spotlight with someone else the other two times and other than the drug issues that they share, I would be happy and wouldn’t mind. He’s her favorite unless she needs money and then it’s my husband. She’d forget she had any other grandchildren at all if he had a baby which might be the best. And my stepson which is her biological grandson brought that to my attention... that’s how bad it’s gotten. He’s pissed because every time she asks for money, it puts his dad farther and farther behind on coming home.