Am I overthinking this??

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He confessed to me about a month ago and two weeks later I told him I like him too. He were kinda progressing for a bit and we had sex.
But lately his replies have been so short. He often leaves me on seen too. Last time I stayed over I borrowed his shirt and I haven't seen him in a while so I want to return it and see him too.
Do you think he's just avoiding me or he's genuinely busy? Or maybe I'm just being a girl and overthink everything??

This is the next morning

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“Come now” 
“Actually my hamster just died” 
“I’m free now!”
“No wait I’m having surgery later” 
.... He makes 0 sense. Just mail it to him or tell him to pick it up. There’s absolutely no reason for you to return it, if he was concerned about that shirt then he’d ask for it. Just let it go

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He’s not interested.

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By the looks of it I feel like he’s probably having fun with others. Doesn’t care much about you, I hooked up with a friend and he had my makeup bag.. he kept asking when he can see me and he wants to drop it off I told him the SAME thing, leave it outside on the floor (because I just didn’t care to hangout or anything) it was just a hook up for me.
Sounds the same right here.

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He's acting like he's 14 lol😂 just keeps them shirt unless he asks for it.. He seems uninterested and childish

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Wait for him to come to you.
He makes no sense.
I wouldn’t worry about him that much. 
But that’s just me
🤷🏻‍♀️

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The way he text frustrates me lol I'd stop texting him and keep his shirt lol

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He’s just not that into you. A guy who wants to see you and actually likes you is jump all over the chance at being able to see and spend time with you. They are not going to make excuse after excuse after excuse. And even if they had certain things going on, they will rearrange their plans and make it work just in order to be able to see you.

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he doesn’t seem interested to see you. and you keep pressing it. i’d leave him alone

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I dont think he is as interested as you may be? I feel like he only told you he was free to be like "well I did try". But honestly it seems like he is only interested in communication or hanging out of he's getting a quick hit and run as he called it. You should pull back a little bit because he isn't putting in the same energy. But youve done nothing wrong!! If drop his shirt off on his door like he said or just keep it til he mentions it. Don't ask about hanging out until he does. Give him some space and see what happens cuz we don't really know what you guys have going on in life.

Am I overthinking this??

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