What do you think?

So...your spouse was going outside to move both vehicles into the garage and you asked them to grab your bag since they are already out there. They came back in and you ask if they grabbed it. They said no, I forgot. They end up going back out to grab it but when they come back in they say, "why would I ever get you a $2,000 treadmill if you can't even walk out to your car?" How would you take that? I told him that it was really insensitive and mean. I never asked him to go back out and get it. He said that I don't like to have to get up and that activities where I can "sit" are more appealing to me.Then he proceeds to tell me that he feels like a "gopher" and not a husband because I'll occasionally ask him if he can help grab one of the kids water or something. Then somehow this makes me feel like I'm crazy and overreacting. I do SO much for my family on daily basis. All he has to worry about is his work and stopping to grab milk occasionally.

I'm also dealing with a lot of health issues. I had freaking brain surgery in September and have had a whole slew of problems since.