So to keep a long story short.. let me just start by telling you that my sister who is 19 years old and pregnant is staying with my husband and I because she had a lot of problems in her hometown and didn’t have anyone to help her. She called me and I offered to help, spoke to my husband and he agreed to help. She’s been here 2 weeks and I’m feeling very anxious and stressed. Well, I was talking to my husband and told him she wanted to go back home and that I didn’t think it was such a good idea. We went over to his sister in laws house who lives next door, I stayed there talking to her and he left ni tú thought he was leaving to work then he called me and I realized he didn’t get my car keys from me which he needed because he was going to borrow my car... anyways he called me like 10 minutes later or so.. then when he goes for the keys he told me he said something to her... something along the line that she liked the tough life but he said it in Spanish. And I was just curious and asked him if that was all he said to her. And where was she when this all happened? He was like in her room, she was going to take a shower. So then I talked to my sister about the way she was feeling and just her situation, wanting to leave and all.. then i asked if my husband said anything to her. She said yes that he knocked on her door and told her not to worry about anything, that everything was being taken care of and he just wanted her to feel comfortable etc etc... I’m not trying to over think anything but I feel anxious, stressed and worried because I didn’t like the fact that he went without me to talk to her and knocked on her door. Well, aside from that her room is in the hallway and sometimes he’s just standing there when her door is open and I’m just irritated and annoyed because he never uses my bathroom or even stands there and all of a sudden he is. He knows she’s there in our home and will sit on the couch with no shirt. Then when we go out somewhere he waits for my sister when he’s always so impatient and always waits in the car. Before we get in the car I have to buckle both of my kids in but sometimes she helps me buckle my daughter and since day one that she got here I will just find him standing next to the door a few feet back from where she’s leaving over to buckle my daughter and just staring. And I just ask him why he’s just standing there, to go in the car. I mentioned to him yesterday how I didn’t like the fact that he knocked on her door without me being there and said a bunch of things to her that he didn’t even tell me when I asked, so it was hard for me to trust him because it makes it seem like he just gave me a piece of information to his convenience and is leaving stuff out for a reason, just making himself sound suspicious. Anyways, I’m happy and excited to have her in our home because she’s my sister and I love her, but I’m feeling worried he’s trying to get at her or try and make her like him behind my back. I was already upset and when my sister and I were having dinner he showed me a video and was turning it at an angle so she could see it too.. and I was just like omg how stupid. It was a video my aunts husband sent him of some girl in booty shorts walking and a little boy honking the horn with his private (he was clothed). I just felt it was inappropriate and I know people are always sending him porn, nude girls and that sort of stuff and he knows how uncomfortable I am about it but he just doesn’t give a shit I guess. Btw I’m pregnant as well and I just feel like he’s being insensitive about everything!! It’s not my pregnancy hormones, I just feel he’s being inappropriate about a lot of things.