Boyfriend Likes Caucasian Women

Tina S.

I am Asian, and my boyfriend loves me and I know that he is very much into me and attracted to me, but I recently figured out he’s into Caucasian women. I know it shouldn’t matter, but it makes me sad because I am not white and will always and forever be Asian lol, I mean, that’s not something that will ever change. DON’T GET ME WRONG....am not ashamed for who I am and I will never change myself. It’s just that, he fits my personal preferences entirely and I think I’d feel much better if I fit his preferences just as much.

Like I said, I know it shouldn’t matter but it does make me feel a little bummed. After all, he has been with me for 4 years so that must be saying something. But how do I not let a little thing like this bother me? All pride aside, would you feel bothered too?