So today I took my nursing boards (I’m not currently working because I’m 8 months pregnant and need my license as an RN to work) and I was up all night from 10pm-5am trying to feel baby kick (I’m 33 weeks pregnant)

I was really anxious about the baby but couldn’t go to hospital because I had to take my boards this morning. So I got about two hours of sleep this morning before leaving for my exam.

Anyway normal day. Husband works all day. Stepson goes to school then a friends house. Husband gets home and asks if I can make dinner and I groan (sorry some nights I just hate cooking) it’s Friday night figured we could order pizza or something plus I wasn’t even hungry. So then he’s like fine I’ll make dinner. What do we have. I say there is a pound of ground beef that can be used for a lot of dishes. Then he is like we just got groceries two days ago and I don’t see anything in the fridge or anything. (Fridge is packed with fresh fruit veggies milk juice yogurt eggs etc plus full freezer and pantry fruit bowl is also full of veggies and fruit) so I’m starting to pick up he’s in a bad mood from work... cuz really dude?

my husband is 41 so he’s grown and is really bad at managing stress. Anyway so I tell him I save the receipts for you so you can see what I’m buying

Y’all he acts like I’m buying fun stuff at the GROCERY STORE like I’m wasting our family’s money or something what the heck.

So I say well things like fresh fruit and grass fed beef are more expensive he goes off on me about why I’m buying grass fed beef. I say its better for you

Then he’s like oh I see you had ice cream too I thought your midwife said not to do that. I was like jeez babe I see you had a bad day I didn’t have a great day either. I can eat ice cream if I want and if you don’t like how I grocery shop then why don’t you do it yourself?

He says to me...

No. I already work all day pay for everything I cook dinner and then grocery shop too? What would be the point of you? What would be the point huh?

He never cooks dinner give me a break

But the thing that broke me is he actually asked what the point of me would be if I didn’t do the grocery shopping...

My feelings are so hurt

A husband should never ever make a wife feel like she doesn’t have a purpose like wow

Just some background on this jerk...

He has been married-ok

He has a son- I love that boy so much and he lives w us and I do anything and everything for him

He has genital herpes that he didn’t tell me about until we were together 3 years

He had an outbreak during the pregnancy and if y’all don’t know herpes can KILL A FETUS OR A BABY.

His parents have not done one thing for this baby while my parents have gotten us so many things and given us like $3,000 since Christmas and my husbands first reaction is me handing the money over to him before even saying thank you to my parents...

So all the baggage he has brought to this and now I’m worthless pretty much...

I haven’t reacted to him. I’m going to respond calmly. I took a hot shower and cried like a damn baby. I’m going to tell him how much he hurt me. You know what he will probably do? Deny it happened. Just needed to vent.