Gender disappointment

Sarah-Jayne 🏴󠁧󠁢󠁥󠁮󠁧󠁿

I'm 25w 1d. We havent found the sex of the baby, I'm really worried I want cope will with gender disappointment if our baby isn't my preferred sex.

It took us 2years to get pregnant, we then lost 2 before this pregnancy so I also feel really guilty for having such a strong preference.

Has anyone had this?

How did they cope?

Did you struggle to bond?