Can’t feel uterus

So I’m 11 weeks 2 days and I can’t feel my uterus. I’ve heard/read people can start feeling it at this time...is it normal to not be able to feel it too tho? When im laying flat my stomach is soft and just goes flat but when I’m standing I feel like my abdomen near my pubic bone is firm but not sure if it’s just muscle or whatnot...I’ve got a little bit of pudge in my belly but not much, so not sure the extra weight there also makes a difference.