After more the 5 yrs of TTC (now I’m 41), 5 <a href="https://glowing.com/glow-fertility-program">IVF</a> cycles, 1 endometriosis surgery, 2 chemical pregnancies, 1 miscarriage after week 7, my husband said he needs a break. We have one more frozen embryo, PGS tested. The more I’m waiting, healing on many levels, the less I want to go through all this (FET, 2ww, possible miscarriage) ever again. It has just been TOO MUCH. The idea of an adoption scares me too but at least there’s an outcome. I hardly tell family and friends bc all I got to hear was “Don’t give up”, “it could be worse, at least you’re not sick”, “just relax”. I just feel it’s enough. Still, my friends’ pregnancy announcements really hurt and I choose to distance myself from them - self care.