We just keep fighting

Between the stress of the coronavirus and my baby's first birthday, my husband and I just keep fighting 😞 we've only been married two years and now have a 1 year old, so I feel like we're still getting the hang of marriage and Parenthood. Add on the fact that daycare has just closed for minimum 2 weeks, coronavirus has everyone on edge, and our babys small get together to watch him eat cake turned into a full blown catered party with both of our families - literally over night - and we just keep fighting...over everything. What to buy at the store, how to make baby's cake, how to divvy up working from home, the list goes on. It's breaking my heart. I don't know what to do to make it stop. We can't agree on anything. Is anyone else struggling with the stress of all this happening at once?