How did you find someone?

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Me & my wife did two IUI.. the first one was in September 23 2019 & second was February 24th 2020 but both came back negative (AF). We used donor sperm from cryo international & fairfax cryobank. Now we’re thinking about finding someone instead of going through a bank but my wife asked 3 people she know & they told her they want to be in the baby life. I just don’t know HOW to ask anyone because we dont want that person in the baby’s life no rights or anything.

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Me and my fiancé found our donor on prideangel. You do have to pay about $35 for a messaging pack, but so does the donor so it kind of shows how serious most of them are. A tip to use less messages would be to just write out about y’all, what you’re looking for...etc, and end with your email. There’s also a site called coparents just make sure when you search you put donor only. When having a conversation with them just be upfront with what you want and stand your ground. There will be some that you have to weed through, but once you find that one it’ll be worth it! Best of luck to y’all!!

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We found our donor on just a baby. Try using a site strictly geared toward same sex couples trying for a baby i.e. Just a baby, known donor registry, pride angels; since majority of the people on the site already know that they are strictly donors and inform them you want all rights.

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there’s loads of places! my wife & I used “Just A Baby” it’s an app on the apple store. You can also try “known donor registry”

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I used pride angel. They can’t ask for payment or NI. Also they have it on there if they want involvement or not. I found just a baby to be full of weirdos who just want sex. Or they back out last minute. With my new donor from pride angel he donated 4 times this month on my schedule no questions asked. And he wasn’t a weirdo. Still won’t know if I’m pregnant till next week but it was a good donor experience

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Someone told me about this app! If u don’t already know about this!! Goodluck and babydust!🧸✨

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Try Known Donor Registry.

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Try fertility acupuncture to get the blood flow flowing nice and clean. My wife and I were very lucky with a successful IUI try #1. But, I put a lot of credit toward the acupuncture. Whether you decide to try at home or do IUI again, I really suggest it. Also, if you do find a private donor, I’d draft papers with a lawyer protecting your rights.

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So I know this is old and I’ve commented before but I tried a new method this round and I used spermship.com it’s one donor who ships it for $98 and it was successful for us

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My wife and i are contemplating this right now as well.  We've done 7 iui's all unsuccessful.  We are to the point where we are considering using fresh sperm as we beleieve we will have better luck.

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