Have you had a threesome?!

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I have questions! 
My boyfriend and I are considering it, with another girl. My boyfriend thinks the risks outweigh the pros. He thinks I'll over think things and wins up regretting it because I can be a jealous person sometimes. But I told him I want to and I'd I ende up not liking it or got uncomfortable we would stop.
Did you know the other person? My boyfriend thinks itd be better with one of my friends, but I don't. I rather it be a stranger.
Did you do it at your house or get a room somewhere?
How did you start? I feel like it might be awkward at first.
Did you ask them to get tested for STDs and get tested yourself? 
How did it go over all? 
Would you do it again? 
Let me hear your experiences! Im very curious.

Accepted Answer

if you’re a jealous person, don’t do it. if your partner isn’t 100% sure he wants to do it, don’t do it. I’ve had many threesomes (I was always the third) and it has definitely been weird in some instances. they think they’re so 100% okay with me being there until the girl sees her boyfriend fucking me or her boyfriend feels left out when I was eating his gf out really well and she stopped blowing him, etc. you can feel the mood change in an instant and all of a sudden someone’s not having fun and it gets WEIRD. also, if all parties aren’t equally attracted to each other, it WILL NOT be fun. trust me. if you aren’t attracted to girls, don’t do it. if you think she’s hotter than he does, don’t do it. if he thinks she’s hotter than you do, dont do it. if only one of you has chemistry with her, don’t do it. I would recommend that she be a stranger rather than a friend. feel free to message me if you have any questions or wanna talk

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If you’re unsure I’d recommend doing stuff with a couple! That way it’s not awkward if you decided to back out because you still have your own partners! Just try some foreplay on the others and stuff, test the waters and see how you’re feeling about it as it’s happening. Much better spectrum of how much you do or don’t want to commit to it xx

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I have before and my fiance and I are fine and would do it again. It's all depending on your relationship together. Some people will try to say itll ruin your relationship regardless but that's not true. It's your open mindedness and boundaries that control it completely

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The only time I ever did, I was with two other girls.

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If you want to continue this as a seeps relationship never ever ever invite a third party. It will never ever ever be the same.
Yes I’ve done it. Very awkward. Cheating followed because you don’t reach that peak again (imo). No trust. Fill in the blank.
Just don’t do it unless you’re single and having fun.

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My partner met someone on tinder (were not mutually exclusive) and they seemed really cool so I wanted to meet them and they are cool. So we talked about doing stuff together all three of us. We’re still in the getting to know you phase and planning meeting up and stuff. And it won’t be a while cus of the country wide quarantine. But I’m excited about it. I get jealous sometimes when people I like do stuff without me, but we have very open communication with no judgment so I’m pretty sure this’ll work out :3

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Never had one but always asked my husband if we could. 
Was asked by a friend but told her no because I already know she is a jealous person and I didn’t want her to recent me later or fight with her man like “you had sex with her” blah blah blah you know turn it around. 
In my opinion keep building up to it until you are ready. maybe go to a club, ask if the person would like a 3some or if you know someone that you both are cool with an know they a freak lol and if they are up for it too

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My suggestion.. if there’s at all any uneasy feelings DONT DO IT. I actually had my first in high school when I had been drinking with my bf and one of my friends I’d messed around with before.. and again as a single adult with another couple who used this regularly in their relationship. I’m not sure how much of this you know about but the 3rd person is called a “unicorn”.. bringing in someone into your relationship is really tricky and you both have to be absolutely sure it’s what you both want.

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I’d say think about why you want it first. If it’s to make him happy then don’t do it, but if you’re genuinely into it then go for it. 
Make sure you both understand that youre on the same team. Even if you do get jealous, remind yourself that you tried it and it didn’t work, now you can just move on. Try to communicate and be open with each other, so even if it goes badly you still have each other to talk to about how it made you feel. 
We did it with a girl from tinder, at her apartment. We asked if she has been tested but didn’t get one specifically for the occasion.

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I did know the person she was a friend and we were always together that summer for sure was nice because she encouraged me when I felt nervous, but after she moved to Florida. I did it at my parents house I was 18 and living there they weren’t there and they were aware of my sexual activities, at first it was awkward but we started taking shots then I just made out with her and told her If she wanted she could sit on his lap then we went to the bedroom and proceeded to both give him head at the same time then someone blew him while the other licked the other vagina, then one ride his dick (I let her) most people say only your husband or boyfriend can actually only fuck you and I sat On his face, I didn’t ask about STDS & I get a routine check anyways, I did do it again with another female was no where near the same experience it was awful THE PERSON YOU PICK MAKES OR BREAKS IT FOR YOU, I would love to if I could find someone with my husband to join but not sure if he’d be down,

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