Are your SOs willing to give massages? When I ask my husband for one, he says he never gets them. My legs are swollen, feet hurt, and I have to give him one to get one? Why can’t some men be gentlemen? Am I being too selfish? He’s more of a get it yourself type of person. I’m over here like, I can get it myself, but how thoughtful is it for you to get things for me at times, like now? He was like this my last pregnancy. He got tired if me asking, especially towards third trimester to end, that he bought me a membership to Massage Envy. I was literally four weeks from having my baby when he did it. I just feel like he should help me feel better when I’m not doing so good. I’m on my feet all day at work, walking miles a day and by the time I get home, I have kankles. It would just be nice if he offered to do it with not expecting anything first or at all. I want him to want to help me. Am I asking too much? Am I being selfish?