So this is an extremely sticky situation.

Me and my ex broke up 6 years ago and we ghost each other and literally pop back into each other’s lives every 2 years for no apparent reason.

Close to 3 years ago (it’ll be 3 in the summer) we were talking for 3 months but I was broken up with my baby daddy and I wanted to reconcile with him for the sake of our daughter — that didn’t work out.

**** DISCLAIMER: I WAS 18 when we first dated- I had my child at 20 with my bd not the same EX I’m talking about— also, my child has never been exposed to this and has never seen him*****

Now I’m in a new relationship and so is he, and the odds came that he messaged me and we are in this dilemma again.

We have both cheated on our partners, but yet we don’t know how to break up with them.

We are cursed, this is shitty. I don’t want to keep sharing my body with 2 ppl. We did stop hooking up for a whole month but like always, we end up coming back to each other like addicts.

Btw the main reason why we broke up in the first place was bc he cheated on me out of spite bc I slept with his friend in 2013 and I didn’t know they were friends until I started dating him in 2014. So we never got closure, it’s always felt like unfinished business with me and him. Sad part we just end up popping in each other’s lives at the most inconvenient times