Single Life

So I’m 30 and single. I like being single cause I don’t have to answer to anyone and I have a lot more time on my hands to focus on me. On the other hand I also kinda want someone to come home to and talk about my day. I want someone to to answer to lol and argue with. And I still want a family 😢 I’ve been talking to this one guy since November (it is now March) yes we’ve had sex and idk if It’s too early to bring what I want for my future. We had an amazing Valentine’s and we talk on the phone almost every night and on his break but none of these convos involve “future talk”. If it is time that I bring what I want future wise, how do I even go about it? If it’s way too early when is the right time ? What I’m afraid of is bringing it up not liking the feedback and having to part ways. Even though I’m not young enough to be picky I know what I want and I’m no where desperate enough to waste time and hope for the best... at least not yet lol please help