Me and my boyfriend have been in a relationship for almost 2 years and sex is starting to die off a lot... I find myself asking and getting denied or getting the later response more and more. I've asked him if I ask for sex to much (he's 14 yrs older than me) and he tells me no every time. Saying if you just "took it"(did all the work) we'd probably have sex more. But I don't like that cause it makes it feel like I'm worth having sex with a long as he dosent have to put in any effort. I'll start four play when we get in bed and 90% of the time he falls asleep or just lays there, no return four play. I'm struggling so much with this because I have gained weight and it makes me feel like maybe I just don't do it for him anymore. It's incredibly depressing for me as I've always been extremely sexually active. Any thoughts or suggestions. Had anyone else ran into this problem before...